Reflections
AT ebb time I wrote a few lines upon the shore..and gave them all my heart and all my soul..at tide time I returned to read what I had inscribed and found my ignorance upon the shore.."jubran khalil"

:: school memories:The two times when I cheated.

To start with,I have to say that I was always good in school.I have always had good grades and my mom used to go to ijtima3 el ahali to hear the same thing over and over from all teachers,if she studies a bit harder she would be the first in her class,I never cared enough though!AND I PERSONALLY DOUBT THAT TOO ,so why bother!!You see,cheating techniques was never a big issue for me,while it was for so many others.Quite the inventors they were!
I remember to this day the voice of Madame Lutfi,shouting out loud :salam you will remember me 7atta akher 7ayatek inti ma btist7i!!all that for hiding my french notebook under the table and sneeking a look during the exam?I would have passed it without looking,I would have got a good grade too but that day for a reason I could not comprehend I wanted a full mark so bad.I also probably wanted the thrill of a cheat ,you know the danger,the suspense,the secret!So I was caught and scandaled!Big deal,no wonder after passing my Certificat and Brevet exams (Official french exams with certificates from the french center)she was real shocked at how good I did in boththat she expressed her shock to anyone who would listen.But this is nothing next to the time that I faked a whole test for my friend.
It was my best friends birthday yesterday and I called her up.She lives in Chicago now and we haven't seen each other in years.We talked and talked and this cheating incident came up so I decided to write about it.It was the most dangerous school adventure and I have committed it in the name of friendship.I am glad I did,and if my daughter or son do something like that one day I will TRY and understand and not get all parenty about it.(God,I hope I don't find out),here goes:

Nadia had a piano test that day,and she needed to study and practice for it,it was probably grade seven for her or something really important so she decided to skip school.And it was agreed that the religion exam due that day will be presented by me!!How on earth did we come up with such ideas?And where on earth did we find such confidence that (saff el talet i3dadi baa)will all stick together and not tell on us?I asked all the girls not to mention that Nadia was off when miss siham came for 7odoor w ghiab!and no on did.So step one was a success.Then comes the religion class.We had an american priest for a teacher that year and he handed in the papers to be distributed to the back rows where I resided for the most part of my twelve school years.( I am such a different person now:rather nerdy I dare say).For the first time ever ,he had the papers personalized with our names on them,and miraculously both mine and Nadia's papers landed in my hands.I wrote my answers in 5a6 mshalbak and hers in 5a6 mfarra',waited to the end of class when he was begging us to return the papers and stop writing and handed in both.Following class,both me and Nadia are sitting in anticipation for the corrected papers and he starts this lecture how he found out that a lot of girls cheated.That he has proof and how he attached each two cheaters appers together and sent them down to Sister 7ilo,the principal.Then he started distributing the rest.Of course we were sure that was the end of the world and that our papers will not show up.It was rather a shock to see that the last two papers were ours.We both got a full mark,we both had the same spelling mistake,we both wrote christainity I before A or vice versa ,to this day I don't know whats the right spelling.And to this day I can't believe he did not find out,we were never caught, and we were never given in by other friends and class mates.A certain feeling I have tells me that he did know and being a priest and knowing that we are really good people on the inside he decided to give us a chance.But why did he tell on all the others?beats me.Well,I did it for Nadia,and I know if I needed Nadia to do this for me she would ,no questions asked.And to me that is all that matters.So ,Nadia,Long live our friendship,and ,old classmates:Thanks for the solidarity,if a bit too late.(18 years bass!)

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On January, 16, 2006 1:30 PM , Hani said:

It is so sweet when those who shared you the memories are still around


On January, 16, 2006 2:19 PM , Dar said:

lol , i enjoyed reading it to the last word , its intresting exciting :), like if i was reading a short story . School memories are the best ! u 'd better make her read that , she will feel so happy about it
Cheeerz!


On January, 16, 2006 3:10 PM , Lina said:

Oooohh Salam you brought back too many sweet memories with this post; Mme Lutfi, Miss Siham, Soeur 7ilu... Aaah the good old days! Well, I once got caught in 9th grade in math class (with miss Siham) as I was passing answers to my friend.. and I lost two grades for it! But I never learned ;)

I remember in 11th grade during finals, when I finish my exam I'd start helping out the 9th graders and 10th graders and my classmates, and then Ustaz Sami would spot me and ask me to stand up and collect the papers, not knowing that he was in fact giving me a perfect position to 'be of help' :)


On January, 16, 2006 6:53 PM , kinzi said:

Salam, thanks for this peek into your past! I was an undiagnosed dyslexic in school, and was a professional cheater. Thank God He changes us!


On January, 16, 2006 10:04 PM , jameed said:

Writing the whole exam for someone else was THE BIG thing to do. All other exam-related offenses seemed minor compared to it. You did the right thing. And you not only proved yourself to be a good friend, but also cool :)

At least there was prior thinking of the plan for you. One day in 11th grade, I was sitting in my classroom when all of a sudden a friend puts this paper on my desk and says "X milta3in deeno bil sho3beh il tanyeh, can you help?" and I did as much as i could.


On January, 16, 2006 10:07 PM , jameed said:

Oh, and I will forever remember the anonymous "bakaloriya" guy who was the only one who knew the proof for the tawjihi math question in our exam hall. How I landed with a nice muraqeb who got me the answer on a piece of paper remains a mystery to this day.


On January, 17, 2006 10:20 AM , salam said:

Thanks Hani and Dar for your comments.Thanks for the nice words Dar.
Lina,aren't they sweet the nassra memories,me,my mom,and all my sisters graduated from there but I would never send my daughter there in spite of all the great memories.would you?
Kinzi,you know,I never got it this dyslexia thing,i know there's a million kinds but how exactly does it affect one?
Thanks ,Jameed,and what a cool supervisor to get you the answer on a silver plate from teh baccalaureat guy,so you sound like a terra scanta boy..are you?


On January, 18, 2006 11:21 PM , Lina said:

Well Salam I agree :) although I love my school and will always cherish the memories (and the great education of French language), I would never send my daughter there..


On January, 19, 2006 10:44 AM , zeid koudsi said:

I realize that it's wrong, but I don't feel bad about it, either, partly because I know everyone else is doing it


On January, 19, 2006 10:45 AM , zeid koudsi said:

I realize that it's wrong, but I don't feel bad about it, either, partly because I know everyone else is doing it


On January, 28, 2006 2:20 PM , Rania said:

I really enjoyed reading that! Nasra was my school for 12 years, and your post brought back lots of memories!

I still remember when I- just for the sake of it- decided to copy the French "dictee" off the copybook on my lap in 2nd grade. I remember Madame Qaryouti heading towards me with her angry, chubby red face, my heart pounding with every sound of her high heals making their way to where I was sitting... She snatched it from under the desk, gave me a frightening "Bit3ideeha?", but for some reason decided to forgive me!

That's probably the biggest cheating memory I have;)


On January, 29, 2006 11:00 AM , salam said:

Mme..Kriooti..you went back so many years back..waaaal..I can barely remember her,,though her daughter was my classmates..school memories!aren't they the best?


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