Reflections
AT ebb time I wrote a few lines upon the shore..and gave them all my heart and all my soul..at tide time I returned to read what I had inscribed and found my ignorance upon the shore.."jubran khalil"

:: The Good Wife's Guide.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with a wife's attempts at making her home a haven of comfort and pleasure for her husband,but this guide,goes a little bit too far.It was supposedly published in Housekeeping Monthly in 1955.It assumes that women have no jobs outside their home,and obviously no identity inside it.It might be a fake article,but I still thought it was amusing.Since I'm trying to be a very good wife,I will publish it and head straight back to "my place" behind the sink.





Men of the world,weep,for the fiftees are long gone!




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On August, 13, 2006 12:58 PM , noone
from Jordan said:

This is probably the "forward" of the fifties, you know like the stuff we forward nowadays making fun of the current situation, just being sarcastic!


On August, 13, 2006 1:09 PM , PALFORCE
from United States said:

Salam,

Here is my own "The Good Husband's Guide":

....Yes Maam!...

LOL


Peace


On August, 13, 2006 4:57 PM , salam
from Jordan said:

In fact,noone,it seems to have been forwarded on a large scale..at one point.But i just saw it recently.
Palforce,I like your guide,you're a smart husband.


On August, 13, 2006 5:36 PM , 7ala said:

I think every one has in his/her heart and mind his/her own guide, a guide from God ... bs elmohem elwa7ad yefham w yemshi 3alaih and he/she will not have to search for other guides!


On August, 14, 2006 7:41 AM , Ramroom
from United Arab Emirates said:

Hi,

Well even if it was a 1955 guide I would think that some things would never change: things like MEN ARE MAFAGEE3 so let's try learning how to cook hehehe


On August, 15, 2006 10:23 AM , Randa N.
from Jordan said:

Hi Salam,

This is good. How did you get this stuff, anyway?

I like the piece of advice stating that "his topics of conversation are more important than yours" ...

C YA


On August, 20, 2006 12:08 AM , wte
from United States said:

FROM URBAN LEDGENDS

The following is from a 1950's home economics textbook intended for high school girls, teaching them how to prepare for married life:


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1. Have dinner ready: Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal - on time. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him, and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospects of a good meal are part of the warm welcome needed.

2. Prepare yourself: Take 15 minutes to rest so you will be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your makeup, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people. Be a little gay and a little more interesting. His boring day may need a lift.

3. Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives, gathering up school books, toys, paper, etc. Then run a dust cloth over the tables. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift, too.

4. Prepare the children: Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces if they are small, comb their hair, and if necessary, change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part.

5. Minimize the noise: At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of washer, dryer, dishwasher or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet. Be happy to see him. Greet him with a warm smile and be glad to see him.

6. Some Don'ts: Don't greet him with problems or complaints. Don't complain if he's late for dinner. Count this as minor compared with what he might have gone through that day.

7. Make him comfortable: Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or suggest he lie dow


On August, 24, 2006 8:30 PM , KoffeeKupz
from Canada said:

I don't see what the big fuss is all about. If a woman chooses to live that way to make her husband a happy man LET HER! I am a SAHM who does just that, makes her husband happy! So what? It makes ME happy doing it. He is the money earner, so the least I can do is make his life a little more comfortable.




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